Humpty Dumpty Heather

About seven years ago, in my journal, I scribbled:

Humpty Heather sat on a wall
Humpty Heather had a great fall
All the kings horses, all the kings men
Couldn’t put her back together again.
But Humpty Heather is on God’s plan
And Humpty Heather along with her CuBAN
Are working hard and working together
She ain’t gonna be broken Humpty forever!

Friends, sometimes we fall. And lest we do, we mustn’t feel like it’s over! Like an egg, humans fall, crack and break–-but like God (and only God), He puts us back together again (I can testify! 🙌🏾 Anyone else?!) If you feel like Humpty–you fell, you cracked, you broke–don’t despair. Let the one who made you, repair you. That’s what “Carpenters” do. ❣️

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Don’t Be Discouraged
By Your Dark

The nighttime sky can be eerily dark, but there are stars that twinkle it with light. It is pitch black in your room, but there is still a dot of light from your mobile device. It is scary for your child to sleep at night, but not if there is a little nightlight. Oh, what we’ll do to bring light to things. Because until we do, they are dark–and unless we’re sleeping, we simply prefer light. The same can be said about our lives. What we’ll do to light up our life. But no matter how many “stars” we gather to shine onto our lives, there are still dark spaces between them: our thoughts nobody knows, our words we don’t let everyone hear, our actions when no one is looking. These spaces of darkness are inevitable, but we hope only temporal. What do we do? We need a source of light that is powerful, eclipsing, and endless. We need a never-melting candle. We need a flashlight with invincible batteries. We need a lamp that never needs a new lightbulb. We need something more powerful and more endless than our “dark” could ever be. We need God. The bible says, “God is light; in him there is no darkness at all. “ (I John 1:5) If you have God in your life, though it feels dark around you, God IS light within you. When He moved in, He brought light with Him. And no body and no thing can snuff it out. Today, don’t be discouraged by your dark, be encouraged by His light.

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The Roman Who Stood Still

“When the Roman officer who stood facing Him saw how He had died, he exclaimed, ‘Truly, this was the Son of God.'”  Mark 15:39
In the last twelve hours of Jesus’ life, the Roman soldiers were busy. In addition to maintaining order in a chaotic Jerusalem, they: mocked, whipped, beat, made thorn-crowns, gambled, pierced, and killed Jesus. But after all was said and done, one soldier did something seemingly “out of duty.” He stood, he saw, he professed. This begs one question: am I too busy with my duties to stand still and see Him? Consider these euphuisms: “Life in the fast lane,” “Time flies,” “Where did the time go?” When it comes to us believing and trusting Jesus, is it because we can’t see Him or because we’re too busy to look? One time, one soldier took time to stand still. It was long enough to change him to consider: “I didn’t just gamble for a criminal’s clothes, I gambled for God’s,” “I didn’t execute a guilty criminal, I executed an innocent Savior,” “I offered him sour wine, He offered His blood.”  It’s eerie how Psalm 46:10 echoed this: “Be still and know that I am God.” Did this soldier realize the power in standing still? Yes, because the Bible tells us that after he did, he praised the Son of God on the cross. That’s powerful. And this Roman soldier’s moment (and his eternity) wouldn’t have been possible, had he not stood still. 

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Shout-Out
to Complex People

“Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it.” Psalm 139:14

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When You Come and Go,
God Does Too

“the LORD will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore.” Psalm‬ ‭121:8‬ ‭

My comings? Yes, your comings. Where you COME from. If you come from a painful past, GOD has watched over you. If you come from a confusing past, a rebellious past, a hurtful past, an angry past, a denied past—whatever past you come from….GOD has watched over you. His eyes have been upon you–and He has never blinked to miss any of it. Your goings? Yes, your goings. Where you ARE going and where you WILL go. If you go ill, if you go away, if you go rebellious, if you go crazy, if you go resentfully, if you go alone, if you go unspiritual, if you go sheepishly, if you go awkwardly, if you go unknowingly, if you go painfully–wherever you are going…GOD is watching over you. His eyes will always be upon you. Maybe your comings and goings aren’t good. You can still pray and say “Thank you God that you’re with me in them.” When you think nobody is looking and nobody is caring, know today, He is. And His eyes are upon you.

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The Sun Always Rises,
So Will You

I got up early one Saturday morning and couldn’t believe the sunrise God gave us! Though I’m about half way through my life span, I haven’t seen forty-three years of sunrises. But I guarantee, God hasn’t missed one. The sun ALWAYS rises. Does it rise in blue skies? Not always. Sometimes the sun rises in clouds; in rain; in winter. But it always rises. And so will you. As someone who’s had to rise from bouts of depression and anxiety, I’ve clung to this promise of God’s, “We are pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed. We are perplexed, but not driven to despair. We are hunted down, but never abandoned by God. We get knocked down, but we are not destroyed.“  We sure do get knocked down, don’t we? But if we have Christ in our lives, we have Christ in our comebacks. And here’s what that means: we will always rise. Addiction, divorce, loss, abuse, lawsuits, debt, disease, broken hearts, mental affliction…all kinds of things knock us down. But Jesus Christ isn’t only a sunset-Savior, He is a sunrise-Savior. Just look in the tomb where He was buried! It’s empty because He Rose!  If you are knocked down, take heart, you will rise. I hope this encourages someone today.

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A Screw-Up’s Confession

One time, someone sent a letter, this is what it said:
📝Dear whoever,
My name is…well, it doesn’t matter, you don’t know me. But I’ve got to get this out and I’m not ready to take it to people, so I’ll take it to a keyboard. I’ve really screwed up. As a matter of fact, I am a screw-up. I don’t feel like I could live for God because I’m too far from where He is. Don’t get me wrong, I know God. When I was a kid, I invited him into my heart. But now all the naivety and innocence is gone, and I think God is too. You don’t know how bad it is. I’ve done, seen, and been the worst. What can God do with someone like that?
Later, a screw up
 
And someone else sent a reply, this is what it said:
📝Dear screw-up,
I’m one too. I was far from God always thinking, “Why bother finding my way back?” But I didn’t have to because God found His way to me. The condition God found me in was disgraceful and shameful. And when He did, He came graciously. It’s like He knew the last thing I needed was loud and demanding. So God found me, tapped me on the shoulder and whispered to my heart. Now, I’m whole and healed on Earth and I’m going to spend forever in heaven. There are millions of people God has done this for. You’re not alone. God wouldn’t give up on you, if you were. Just because we screw up doesn’t mean we give up. You got this.
Later,
another fellow screw up

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Looking UP to the Broken Who Are DOWN

Whether your a bible reader or not, almost all of us have heard of Job. He was a righteous dude. I mostly study the book of Job to focus on this human’s worst suffering (unmatched only by Jesus). Job was IN hell, ON Earth. But as I was reading, something new jumped out regarding Job’s “friends.” I put that in quotes because after you study their role in his life, you’re left wondering if they really were friends. In a good portion of the book of Job, his friends are there to offer pithy opinions and wisdom. What I particularly gleaned was the position of Job’s friends. They picked the proverbial posture of looking down on Job, in pity. But author Eugene Peterson offers an alternative posture for friends who are suffering, he said: “We need to quit feeling sorry for people who suffer and instead look up to them.” Fireworks went off in my brain. That is genius! What if, instead of looking down in pity on godly-good people who are suffering, we look UP…
1) We look UP to the sky to pray for them.
2) We look UP to them to show RESPECT that God has deemed them worthy of such suffering.
3) And we look UP to them because when Jesus was suffering on the cross, his good friends stood near and looked up to Him.
As you think of anyone you know who is suffering or struggling right now, I hope this encourages you to shift your gaze. Who knows, maybe God will use your upward gaze TO them, to HELP them get back up on their feet again!

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All Yellers and Shouters, Raise Your Hand

Proverbs 15:1 says, “A soft answer turneth away wrath; but grievous words stir up anger.” I should be the last person to write about a soft answer. I’ve always had a big mouth, not just in words, but in volume.  Growing up, it was more common for me to hear “Heather, turn the volume down” than “Heather, eat your vegetables.” I guess that’s why I made a decent cheerleader, but a terrible bookkeeper. In the bible, God challenges us to use a softer voice, because He used one Himself. Especially in conversations with really messed up people. He was good like that. When you master the ability to speak the truth in love, there’s no need to shout, spray or slay.  To illustrate the appeal of a soft voice, let’s compare soft things with its counterparts: a Sealy Posturepedic bed with a fuzzy blanket or a hard cot with a cold sheet? Lavender Softsoap or a bar of Dial? Soft-upholstered LazyBoy recliner or a hard bench?  Soft things are appealing to us just like a soft voice is appealing to others. If you (like me) have the tendency to shout, yell, scream, roar, clamor or bark, we need to add a PAUSE button to our brains. Before we RESPOND in our usual loud way, press pause in our heads. In that pause, adjust pitch and volume. THEN press play and speak forth!

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Your Mind Isn’t a Battlefield That You Can’t Win

One of the battles that can ensue on the battlefield of our minds are dark thoughts that enter and look for a place to stay. I don’t want to expound on what these thoughts are for us, lest I give them power. But they’re dark; and they have no right to our minds.  I found a powerful counterattack in the bible for this: Romans 8:6, “but the mind controlled by the Spirit is life and peace.” If you have Jesus in your heart, you have his LIFE and PEACE in your mind. His life and peace outweigh, outlive, outlast, overrule AND overcome the dark thoughts trying to stay there. Don’t be a wimp with dark thoughts. Don’t just roll over and settle for them. They don’t own you, and can’t take you. Jesus and you are bigger and more powerful than your thoughts. If you suffer from any degree of this, take your thoughts captive and SHRINK them to what they really are: cowardly attempts to attack turf that Jesus has already won.  If you are struggling with thoughts having too much control over your mind, email me, I’d love to pray for you, as I pray for myself. I hope this encourages someone today.

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